A romantic drive is a mysterious power that often gets out of hand. Unfortunately, we are not always liked by those who attract us and vice versa. It is painful to be rejected, but to reject a person is not so easy. To refuse a girl can be unpleasant or awkward, so we begin to look for ways to avoid this, either passively enduring her or simply frankly ignoring her. However, there are better ways to resolve the situation. It is important to remember that, although it is impossible to change the feelings of another person, you can still provide him with the necessary information. So the girl will see the situation more clearly and, I would like to believe, will begin to move on.
Araji Evgenia Yurievna
My sympathy for you Valery. I guess the way out, you double-check for yourself whether it is suitable. Alternatively, you can tell the girl that you are with her, only because she is "sick with the idea of suicide and you are scared," even if your friends know this myth and your desire to leave, this will give you a chance to get support, sympathy. And with "public" support, it will be easier for you to leave. Do not rush to abandon this extravagant idea, try on the situation.
Araji Evgenia Yuryevna, psychologist of Bishkek.
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Lanko Vladimir Vitalievich
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In your words - fear, anxiety. I do not know how much they are yours, but how much is the result of "scaring" you with suicide.
But it seems to me that, just like you now, the girl doesn’t have enough self-confidence, self-confidence and self-confidence.
As a whole, according to the situation, I do not have enough information about what they think and know about your relationship, about the threats your friends, the girl’s parents.
What does it mean "climbed a loop a couple of times"? What were the reasons? How did it end then? How did she deal with problems then?
Here it is necessary to understand. And be honest with yourself, girl. It is possible to meet with parents, if the girl needs help, her parents must provide this help.
And another moment - because something is holding her back from suicide now, all this time, years.
Yes, and probably you need help and support right now. To part and get out of the influence of these relationships. And understand how you ended up in such a relationship.
And to be the meaning of her life is her opinion. How it really is hard to say. But it seems that you believe that you are the meaning of life for her. And I think that this is one of the reasons for the difficulties. Paradoxically, if you prove the opposite to her, it can only complicate everything.
Nevertheless, the help of those who have experience with similar situations and suicidal manifestations is needed.
